Gossip & Back Stabs

now now... in the world there are lots of gossips and back stabbing..
but then which is better??
Gossip or Back stabs??
or are they both similar...
I think its back stabs...

But then People just have todo it...
It sucks when you get to know that they are "talking" about you...
But then you just could not STFU {shut the fuck up}..

Gender comparisons;
now people tend to said and complained female speaks and gossip a LOT !!!
but then come on ... back to reality DO Female do so??
yea perhaps we female gossips .. but not as worst as male...
You have gotta be VERY shocked to hear several conversation of male when they sit together and "TALK"
now now..thats why there are fights on some occasions when they were "talking"
ITS across their accompanion's boundary i guess....

RIGHT to speak ,
I know there are always a right to speak out,
or perhaps we can't even hold your lips or sew it ..
but try to think before you speak ...
I personally agree that some people are straight forward ...
thats great ... but ...
being straight forward for EVERTHING you speak ???
IN THE PLANET EARTH ??!!
sounds ridiculous...
i know the feeling of straight forward person ..
because i think i am one of it..
i wanted to speak out everything ...
but every experience teach me some lessons..
to keep all that for myself...
perhaps i wuld choose to tell them the right time ...
thats better ...
so that i wont have problems with my digestive system by swallowing non stop!!
XD

NOW:
some people said that they like people to be very straight forward!!
now how much you could try to resists when people tend to tlk ver bad things in front of you??
ort around you ???
Perhaps thats not very vital then...

SPEECHES :
now now... most gossips and back stabbing starts from an unwanted speech ..
Not all that so called " unwanted speech" are bad...
but then ... it just tend to link and link and link....
then when it come to the ears of the recipients then ...
things starts ...
well i could say giving a speech or talking is dangerous then ..
hahaha.... but what if you are talkative?

GROUPS :
now now .... do you agree that as your group of friend getting larger ...
there are more secrets??
now you will never know anything about what they talk about you..
Its hard to say anything though.... hmmmmm

Misunderstanding :
now misunderstang is another worst of worst situation .....
credit to ivan ..hahaha
now misunderstanding will lead people thinking people were gossiping or back stabbing them...
or perhaps the start of THAT !!
epople tend to have dissatisfactions ...
and then talk about it ....

JUDGEMENT :
now now...
one person judgement of another will then create gossips .....
and back stabbing .. saying that how is characteristics annoyed you and BLAH !!!
people bear it in mind that there are people loving their attitudes as well ..
sounds complicated ..
but then i have nothing to do with it...
and i have been in it before ..
Now ....judgements sucks !!
thats why i try to keep myself down ...
to avoid unwanted judgement ...
as i had seen many such cases ...
SOB SOB ....
where is the LAW of FREEDOM ..
by then we are all restricted todo whateva we desired by an IDIOTIC JUDGEMENT !!!

RATIONAL :
what what is rational???
Gosh it simply mean that doing things Reasonably ...
in the world of year 2010 !!
WHAT IS THE STANDARD OF REASONABLENESS???
what i try to say is that the world and people attitudes had changed massively ..
give an example :
do people have the term " SEAFOOD" when looking at people with clothes ??
NO not at all ... its okay when you are NEATLY dress !!
the reasonbleness of human had gone to insanity ..
it seems that there are no boundaries to bounce it back but only to keep going...

DO YOU AGREE ??
that gossiping you have to lie alot if one finds out ..
and you have to cover one lie after another ...
Now now ... if it were to me i would just say I DON'T KNOW !!!!
and carrying both my shoulder up ...
thats the best answer OF course ..
to not get yourself in trouble as well as others ...
preserving their friendship...
well i don't know how far will it go ..
but its not good to break other peoples heart though ....

now now .... at last i wrote down another philosophy of mine ...
i wanted to write out during exam .. but i do not think its relevant
 hence i drag and drag ..hahahaa
kill me ... anyway .. its just my personal opinion ...
so just take as reference and not serious